Men and their girlfriends or wives plan their content. They talk about what they will post on their shared social media page. It has to be true to life, yet fun to engage viewers. The social media vortex is full of men and women saying, “confident men who can clean are sexy.”...CONTINUE READING
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The internet needs an accurate depiction of this scenario to go viral. But no one likes harsh truths. Of course, it depends on the woman and her mood. But
9/10 times, you won’t get an eggplant response. She acknowledges the emptied trash or washed dishes. Then points out another undone project. Housework is unending — it’s never complete.
Worse case, she tells you to do the laundry folding or dishwasher filling again because you did it wrong. Or even more disappointing, she tells you that you are an adult, and she doesn’t have a trophy to give you.
Yes, the most attractive quality in a man is his confidence and ability to lighten a woman’s mental load. Women love bad guys because they keep them mentally active.
Right before a woman overthinks, the ‘bad’ guy suggests a new activity. For example, she fears riding a motorcycle. But his supportive words spurs her to hop onto the bike. Overthinking — 0 & Guy lightening mental load — 1.
A man doing housework doesn’t equal sex. After all, the prize for a clean home isn’t a new piece of jewelry each week.
How?
Confidence and a mental load-lifting plan. Her mental load lightens, and she has mental freedom to think about dates, sex, and shared chill time.
Find a quick solution to lift her mental load.
Nothing dismissive like “Babe, that’s tomorrow’s problem.” Or “stop making it such a big deal.”
Propose a solution.
For example, dinner on the stove isn’t working out. State what you observe and say you’ll do x as an alternative. “Babe, the pasta isn’t working out. I mean, you are trying. But it isn’t cooperating. I’ll order pizza for tonight…CONTINUE READING>>
