Absent fathers are a touchy subject. Absent normally equates to non-existence, but absent fathers might be more problematic. We’re never sure if dad is gone for good or if and when he’ll return. Infrequent or infrequent communication can be just as difficult to live with, if not more so....CONTINUE READING THE FULL ARTICLE>>>
Since the beginning of December, it appears that a large number of people have vanished without a trace. Two young girls begged the public three days ago for assistance in locating their parents. One was seeking for her father, while the other was looking for her mother, who was 41 years old.
Khomotso, a woman from Limpopo, has appealed to social media users to assist her in locating the father of her son Calvin. Khomotso claims that she met her baby daddy at dormitories and that she has never been to his home.
I understand that other men avoid accepting responsibilities, but other men have no choice but to go AWOL. Many fathers avoid certain types of mothers because dealing with them would be a losing struggle. The crazier the mother becomes, the further the father will retreat, knowing that society will not believe him. He recognizes that women are able to get away with things that males are unable to. To avoid trouble, some fathers will flee.
Then there’s the case of the irritated mother. In front of their child, she will call him names. Because she is now alone, get their empathy. Meanwhile, she is teaching her children to despise their father.
As a result, when the father feels things have calmed down and tries to return, the mother will act as a gatekeeper by denying him visitation. After all, the spotlight has shifted back to her. As a result, she is portraying herself as the saviour of her children in order to further her cause among her social circle.
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