If you want to learn how to successfully approach any girl you want, it’s not that difficult. Sure, it can be scary, but you can learn to approach women if you use our secrets....CONTINUE READING
Walking up to a girl you’ve never spoken to before is like taking a dip in icy water. It makes you nervous. Your heart starts beating faster than you can keep up with, and your stomach inches closer to your tongue with each step you take. But, as a guy, knowing how to approach a girl is one of the most important things to learn in the dating world.
We’re not going to make this any more difficult than you already assume it to be. Yes, talking to a girl you’ve never met is not easy.
Then again, if you know how to do it without appearing like you’re picking her up, you’ll realize just how easy the whole game can be.
How to approach a woman you don’t know;
1. Glance at her
Look at her now and then just to let her know that you’re trying to catch her attention. Be sneaky and discreet, and always look away as soon as she catches your eye.
You’ll rouse her curiosity, and that’ll force her to look at you now and then to see if you’re still watching her.
2. Make eye contact
Each time she looks at you, look at her and immediately look away sheepishly. Continue to look at her now and then, and, once in a while, lock your gaze for a small fraction of a second and look away again.
By doing this, you’re already building sexual attraction. But if she doesn’t reciprocate here, she’s probably not interested in you. Eye contact is a big go-to when learning how to approach a girl.
3. Appear bashful and awkward
If you’re with your friends, look at her now and then and use your body language to appear distracted and unable to focus on the conversation. By doing that, you’re making her see that she’s on your mind and you’re too distracted to focus on your friends. That’s subtle flattery that attracts women!
4. Smile at her
Exchange eye contact one or two times every minute, but no more than that. When you feel pretty courageous, flash a tiny smile from the corner of your lip for a second and let her notice your smile.
Don’t give her a big grin, though, as smiling that way is creepy. A malicious big grin at this stage will scare any girl away.
5. When learning how to approach a girl, wait for the right moment
Sometimes, all you need to do is wait for the girl to give you a chance to talk to her. If she’s really interested and wants to talk to you, she’ll create enough opportunities for you to walk up to her.
6. Gesticulate that you want to talk to her
Use the right gestures to get her attention. This is tricky but, as long as you get the message across, it’ll still work if you do it confidently.
7. The challenge – she’s with a group of girls
If she’s with a group of friends, you can approach her in one of two ways.
First, you can walk up to her with your gaze fixed on her confidently. Walk right into the herd, but look straight at only her. If you look at anyone else, the envious friends might pounce on you if they think you’re trying to talk to them.
“Hey… I really don’t mean to interrupt you girls, but could I speak with you for a minute? I just wouldn’t be able to forgive myself if I left this place without getting to know you… “
8. Ask if you can buy her a drink
This is something that can work very well at a bar as long as you’ve already built the chemistry and roused her interest. Buy her the same drink she’s already having, and ask the waiter to offer it to her.
The waiter will probably drop a corny, grand message and say, “The gentleman sitting over there would like to offer you this drink.”
9. If there are two girls in a group
With a group of just two girls, walk right up to them while staring at the girl you like. If the girl’s interested in you, too, then her friend will slip away quietly with an excuse.
Even if the friend decides to stay, introduce yourself and say something similar to the line used in the third point. This time, include the girl’s friend in your conversation and make her feel good about herself, too. Don’t forget to keep the focus on the girl you like!
Keep these conversation moves in mind, and it’ll definitely do you good. If you want to make sure it’ll work all the time, build the tension and the mystery with your glances and your eye contact first. You’ll always end up impressing the girl before you even approach her.
10. Make yourself presentable
This is the part where you eliminate the “extraneous variables” that may or may not affect the outcome of your approach.
Leave a good first impression by wearing appropriate clothes, paying attention to hygiene, and top that with a little personal flourish advertising that you’re an interesting person…CONTINUE READING>>
