Winning the attention of a lady you just met isn’t as easy as many persons have painted it. There are so much more in earning the admiration of a woman than just telling her you like her; you have to find ways to prove that you are serious, positive-minded and dependable....CONTINUE READING
As a man who desires to win the interest of a lady you aren’t familiar with, it becomes necessary to adopt certain traits. See them below.
1. Possess a positive and welcoming countenance.
The first thing you must get right if you intend to win a lady’s heart, most especially the one that is getting to know you; is by possessing a positive and welcoming countenance. Your facial expression tells a lot about your behaviour and attitude to situations, and believe me; nobody wants to be associated with a person who has a negative approach to life. The rationale of adopting a welcoming countenance embraces the whole idea of appearing cheerful, calm, presentable and delightful. Possessing all these traits will increase your chances of winning her interest.
2. Be confident and approach her.
Not until you approach a lady and declare your intentions, you will remain in your fantasy of admiration. The best way to tell a person you are interested in them is by saying it to their face. Women, most especially the classy ones are instinctively drawn to confident guys who are equally sure of themselves. Adopting self-confidence as a guy will help improve your charisma.
3. Be attractive on your part.
Before you approach a lady with your relationship intentions, make sure you are flawless in your looks. Appearing shabby and unkempt while wooing a lady, most especially the hygiene conscious ones might amount to their refusal. For instance, wearing untidy and torn clothes, or possessing a smelly mouth or body while talking to a lady you just met will send a negative impression about you.
4. Don’t ignore her.
It is quite surprising that most guys think the best way to win a lady is by ignoring her. In other words, they conform to playing the hard-to-get style. If you want to win the interest of a woman, you have to spend time with her. Playing hard to get on a lady might give her the impression you are proud, and such a feeling will make her ignore you.
5. Give her slight compliments.
A compliment can be an important tool in winning the heart of a lady when used properly. When trying to woo a woman, make sure to use decent compliments on her. For instance, you can compliment her fashion, beauty and intelligence. Doing this might arouse her affection for you.
However, when complimenting a lady, it is important not to use sensitive words or you might just ruin the whole process. For instance; do not openly compliment how big her hips are, or how sexually stimulating she appears. Doing this might project you to be immature and timid before her.
6. Don’t tell her everything about yourself at once, most especially your achievements.
Don’t be too quick to tell her your monthly worth, the number of ladies you have dated in the past, or every single unnecessary detail. Doing this might make her lose interest in you. Studies have shown that ladies are attracted to guys that are mysterious and equally open-minded.
In other words, ladies are more attracted to men who always present something new in a conversation, than a man whose full details and secrets they already know.
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