You and your partner were drawn together for many reasons — physical attraction, common interests, and more. For weeks and maybe months, the two of you got better acquainted, got closer, and everything looked positive....CONTINUE READING
But now you’ve started to sense and pick up small clues that he or she is losing interest. That person might be backing away from the relationship or looking for a change.
If you are left wondering how to win him back, this is a great start. You might want to read into every little comment or gesture to gauge your partner’s interest level, but you can’t know for sure what’s going on inside another person’s head. Ever.
Emotions are fickle, and every relationship goes through ups and downs. This might be a matter of short-term uncertainty while evaluating feelings and your future together.
Maybe the relationship has grown a bit stale and predictable. An infusion of excitement and freshness might bring sparks back.
When a lover starts to feel distant, it can trigger all of our insecurities. Emotional upheavals and dramatic scenes will confuse matters even more.
It’s up to you to pinpoint how long you’re willing to wait and see if the other person is really losing interest. Choose not to feel as if you have done something wrong or that it’s up to you to “fix” the situation.
See what happens when you intentionally allow for space. Your partner just might regain interest. You might want to show your partner that you’re losing interest too just to make a point but ploys are never healthy and never resolve anything.
If you suspect someone is losing interest, remember that you are entitled to an honest response. You can say, “I’m not sure where you’re at emotionally right now. Please enlighten me.”
It’s possible that the relationship is cooling off, and you’ve both been staving off an inevitable breakup. Your partner has his or her own emotions. You can influence another person’s feelings, but ultimately that person is responsible for them.
You can choose to react in ways that honor yourself, hold boundaries, and communicate your needs. Your value as an individual is not diminished one bit because someone seems to be losing interest.
If your partner truly is losing interest, decide what is best for you and your future. You know there are lots of people who will take a big interest in you…CONTINUE READING>>
