You are one step away from the “I do”, yet every night at bedtime you are assaulted by nagging doubts. Doubts, doubts, doubts… Don’t worry! It’s much – much more! – more normal than you imagine. However much in love you are, making such a solid commitment, taking the step and the leap, is not always easy....CONTINUE READING
If you’re one of these people, you can’t miss these 10 honest questions and answers that will clear up all your doubts – they seem obvious and easy to answer but… Is your partner, the ideal partner to share the rest of your lives with?
1. is he or she there for you when you need him or her, supporting and helping you in everything?
The best man has to be just that: a friend, confidant, able to understand without judging, being there in good times and bad.
2. Is he/she the perfect partner in his/her flaws and imperfections? Do you want it that way?
Nobody is perfect and there is nothing more essential in a relationship than accepting the other just as they are, without trying to mould them into our image and likeness.
3. Can you imagine your life without him/her?
Sometimes we don’t realise what we have beside us, except in a breaking situation. So it’s important to think for a second, just a second, what life you would have, what direction you would take, if that person – that person – was not next to you.
4. Do you feel that your relationship is a miniature family?
A relationship is the first step, the basis, of a family and of a family project. Regardless of whether you have children or not, you should feel that as a couple you form an indissoluble nucleus.
5. Do you have fun together? Do you laugh as if there were no tomorrow?
It is very important that as a couple you laugh: at each other and with each other. It is essential that you have fun and that at the most precise, greyest moments, the other person always manages to get a smile out of you.
6. Can you talk about anything without reservations?
Being able to talk about anything with your partner, feeling free and confident to do so at any time, is very important within a couple.
7. Are you faithful to each other?
Faithfulness is one of the most important pillars, along with sincerity and trust, and should be part and form every part of your everyday life.
8. Do you have the independence to enjoy your space?
Each member of the couple should be able to respect the other’s space – in the moments they want to share with friends, in the circumstances in which they can enjoy their hobbies.
9. Do you have an active and satisfying sex life?
Sex is a fundamental part of a relationship – if it is not well, it will necessarily generate other problems within the couple. Ideally, there should be no taboo between you.
10. Is your cohabitation healthy?
The dynamic of a couple and the personality of each one reveals itself in their married life together. It is normal that when you live together – especially at an early stage – there may be some tantrums, frictions – can I put it this way?… Nothing that cannot, of course, be solved through calm dialogue – that is the solution.