People in long-term relationships will someday get to the point where they need to ask themselves: Is this really the person I want to spend the rest of my life with?...CONTINUE READING
Is she really THE ONE?
Scientists all over the world are researching the extremely complicated issues surrounding love and relationships. They have spent countless hours trying to figure out how people fit together, and what qualities they need to bring into a relationship to make it a happy and lasting one…CONTINUE READING>>
In this article, we are bringing you the most important and interesting results of these studies. If the woman by your side has the following qualities, never let her go!
“If A Woman Has These 10 Qualities Never Let Her Go”
She Is Intellectually Challenging
There is no denying that someone’s looks are what initially draws us to them. It’s difficult to spot a great personality from across the room. Many flings are built on physical attraction alone, but how long can that last?
When conversations lack depth or intrigue, we often fill our time with physical activity together, but it is impossible to build a real connection or lasting relationship with someone on that alone.
Being intellectually challenging and having the ability to hold real discussions about meaningful topics, will always beat shallow beauty in the long run.
She Carries Herself With Class
CLASS has nothing to do with the price tag on your outfit. Class is about the dignity you carry yourself with, and the level of respect you show to those around you. True class and elegance shows.
It is hard to miss a lady who is poised and polite to everyone. She far outshines the woman who’s all decked out, but can’t treat others with respect.
She Is Honest And Genuine
How long will you stay in a committed relationship with a beautiful liar? If you cannot trust your partner or believe what she says, how can you construct a solid, lasting foundation with her?
You can’t. Studies show that when men look for a long term committed relationship, they want to have an honest partner by their side. Everyone makes mistakes and bad decisions sometimes. This makes it even more important to have someone who can tell you when you’re wrong and help you get back on track.
She Compromises
It’s easy to be committed in a relationship when it’s going well but, life can’t always be a bed of roses and at some point in your relationship, you and your partner will disagree about something.
It’s completely normal and inevitable but the relationship can only work if both partners are willing to compromise. Scientists say, that those willing to take the steps and make the sacrifices, will have a long and happy relationship.
She Is Kind And Empathetic
Science says that the keys to a long and happy relationship are kindness, generosity, and understanding. In life, we need a person who will believe in us, even when we don’t believe in ourselves.
Someone who can understand when we’re facing tough times. Being compassionate, supportive, and encouraging towards your partner is a huge part of building a successful relationship.
She Is Consistent
Being consistent means that her personality has not changed from what it was when you first met.
To clarify the point, think of consistency as the opposite of volatility. If someone is unpredictable and volatile, it’s difficult to know how they will be acting towards you on a certain day and that gets old, no matter how aesthetically pleasing she is.
She Accepts Your Flaws
Too many relationships only seem to consist of one partner criticizing the other. Their ugly pants, their bad jokes, and their annoying habit of chewing too loudly. I hope you get the picture.
Your partner should never make you feel inferior, unaccepted, or not “good enough.” Yes, she should encourage you to improve yourself, but she should do that by building you up (not tearing you down).
She Has A Good Relationship With Her Parents
If you want to know what your partner will be like in 30 years, look at their parents. If you want to know how they will treat you in 30 years, look at how they treat their parents now but this doesn’t mean that her relationship with her parents always needs to be perfect.
Understanding your contribution to the relationship with your parents would be important in recognizing any tendency to replicate behavior – positive or negative – in an intimate relationship.
The only way to learn how to do better in other relationships is to be aware of those behaviors.
She Holds Similar Values As You
Many times our value system comes from our upbringing. The things we find important, the things we believe in strongly, the way we treat others, and the way we treat ourselves.
The importance of this point cannot be stressed enough. When you set out to make a life with someone, it is important that the two of you agree on some of the non-negotiable values each of you hold.
It doesn’t matter how attracted you are to someone or even how well you get along, if your values don’t align, you will always be clashing in the long run.
She Can Move Past Jealousy
While some jealousy is natural in a relationship, it’s important that both partners are secure enough in themselves and each other to know where to focus their energy but being sensible and trusting each other is important if you want a happy life.
Personal space is important for growth, and it is up to both partners whether they have enough trust in each other to allow for that. A mature, quality woman will allow you to have your freedom, providing you don’t betray her trust…CONTINUE READING>>
