Stubbornness is one of the worst things a woman should not posses. It is understandable if a young boy is stubborn because when he gets married to his “missing rib”, he might change because love can change anything in a man’s life....CONTINUE READING THE FULL ARTICLE>>>
But stubbornness should never be seen in a woman no matter what happens and no matter the nature of her background.
Women are known to be soft in heart. They are known to be loyal to their husbands, parents and to the whole members of her husband’s family. She is loved wherever she goes because of this special quality in her.
A stubborn woman will find it difficult to maintain peace and love in her marriage. She will find it difficult to control her husband or her boyfriend.
See, men cannot be controlled by force. You can’t exert force on a man to humble him. It will only take a woman’s love, meekness, piety and humbleness to win a man’s heart.
This is the secret most women who’s boyfriends or husbands love so much. When you see them, you might think that they have used a spell on their men.
Although, a woman’s loyalty in the house should not be underrated. It should, on no account be misunderstood. Some husbands who do not understand the importance of a good and loyal woman will see their wives’ or girlfriends’ meekness or humbleness as a weakness.
He might use it as an avenue to override her. This is unacceptable. All men should respect their women, especially if they try their best to maintain or return peace and harmony in the house.
Actually, some women are naturally stubborn. Stubbornness as used here means that the woman is disobedient to her man. A man has the right to ask his wife to do something or not to do something.
In a situation where a wife or girlfriend disobeys her husband or boyfriend, the woman is said to be disobedient. To make the women loyal, the man need to do some things.
No matter how stubborn a woman is, on no account should a man raise a finger on her. Do not beat your wife or girlfriend because she refused to obey you. If you do, no one will stand by you, even the curt will not spare you when the case is brought to them.
Any married man should be very careful in dealing with his wife. This is very important because women are known as the weaker vessels. No matter how vibrant, arrogant, stubborn or active a woman is, if you hit her, you may need to prepare for her burial. Learn how to control your anger and do things politely.
Majority of stubborn women are so because of how their men treat them. If you are very observant, you should notice that your wife or girlfriend was once loyal to you. But now, she has become too stubborn to be with. It could be your fault.
Some men feel that since they are regarded as the head of the family, they have every right over their women. With this mindset, their women will appear as slaves before them, therefore, they will be treating them the way they like.
A strong woman who cannot stand the oppression of her boyfriend or husband will rise up one day and become disloyal to him. You can’t oppress a woman you claim to love for a very long time. It is not possible.
No woman who truly loves you will suddenly change and turn against you. She will only change as a result of what you do to her. You will always get back what you do to your woman. Give her love, and she will give you love. Give her peace, and she will give you peace. But give you hatred, and you will get more than ten folds of it.
Instead of hitting or punishing your stubborn girlfriend or wife, think about her behaviour when you first met her. Was she this bad? Think about it with unbiased mind no matter how much you now hate her.
This will make you understand if it was all her fault, yours or just a little misunderstanding. This will make you see where the problem emanated from and what next to do.
When you have have found where the error started from, you need to make peace with her as the man if the house. First of all, surprise her with some gifts. Buy her expensive things to put a smile on her face.
Prepare her best food for her or buy it in a reputable restaurant. Convince her to eat the food. As she’s eating, hold her left hand and look into her eyes. Definitely, you will find love in her eyes. You can kneel on your two knees to beg her, it won’t remove anything from your body.
Beg her so much to forgive you even if you are not at fault. Also, let her understand that you have forgiven her. Promise her that you will start treating her like a wife or girlfriend that she is from now henceforth. With this, she will forgive you and her loyalty will return…CONTINUE READING>>
