Nairobi divorce attorney Christine Muthoni has written a heartfelt letter to young women looking to get married to divorced men....CONTINUE READING
In a post on her Facebook page, Muthoni underpinned the need for such women to take a step back and question why the man is divorced.
According to her, most ladies become too smitten in the relationship that they overlook the same red flags that sent away the former wife.
She insisted on the need for due diligence, adding that court records are public and it is prudent for them to read the divorce judgement and confirm there is actually a decree absolute.
Muthoni explains that many young women in love tend to get the false feeling that they have magic powers to change him where his ex-wife and mother were unable to.
Reached for comment, she told TUKO.co.ke that love blinds, making many to miss the red flags, especially the fact that the man is still grieving his divorce.
That explains why most divorced men looking for new relationships paint their estranged wives badly, with most claiming that the ex is a bitter baby mama who just wants to frustrate him.
Furthermore, many women suffer from saviour syndrome which makes them think they can pick a deadbeat and love him enough to change him.
The only way to mitigate against avoidable heartbreaks is perusing court files which is cheap and legal. She gave her blessings to the lucky women who are able to confirm that indeed the divorcee has no fault because some are good men who were simply mismatched.
In an earlier interview, the family lawyer told TUKO.co.ke that divorce doesn’t make one a failure as has been made to look by society.
Her sentiments were informed by the fact that there is so much stigmatisation attached to divorce in the African setup.
It is for this reason that most people would rather hold onto marriages that are not working, relinquishing their happiness and freedom…CONTINUE READING>>
