Husbands are supposed to be a shelter to their wives, because that is how it is being done. There are hundreds of ways in which a husband should treat his wife in order to keep a very good romantic relationship....CONTINUE READING
Read as we are about to write on the ways a husband should treats his wife. “How should a husband treat his wife?”
How a husband should treat his wife?
Give her maximum support and always be there for her
Appreciate her
Don’t intimidate her
“How should a husband treat his wife?”
Help Her with Household chores
Listen to her ideas
Do not cheat on her
Do not be selfish when making love
Do not act as if you are better than her
Take decision together and stick to it
Give her maximum support and always be there for her
You need to understand that all your wife needs is just to have you by her side throughout her ups and downs of her life. Being there for her is one of the highest things she ever wanted from you as her husband. Your company matters to her more than any other thing. Support her even though you don’t have, at least make her know that you will never let her down. Cheer her up whenever she is moody. Give her reason to smile and she will always be happy with you forever.
Appreciate her
It includes appreciation from all angle, both surprising her with some gifts and giving her a surprise support in something you she can do very well. Appreciate everything she does, even the least one for it will make her to be doing it frequently.
Surprise her when she is least expecting it. Never forget the anniversary date and her birthday. And any day that link to your happy moments. Gifting her on that day is a great way of showing your love. Also, do not compare her efforts to yours. Instead, appreciate what she does for you.
Don’t intimidate her
You should not try to intimate your wife, whether, physical, mentally and emotionally because doing that will only drag your marriage to the mug
If you ever get mad at her, do not react immediately. Instead, it’s better to stay quiet for few minutes and then address the situation. You are an adult, and you need to behave like one by sorting out your problems together and reaching a mutual conclusion.
Just because you are the man of the house does not mean you have to be god that your wife will always worship for as long as she lives. Do not make her to be living in fear in your house. You both are equals, and being a man does not give you any additional powers. Respect her for whatever she is and you will eventually draw the maximum satisfaction from your marriage.
Help Her with Household chores
Being your wife does not mean that she should be doing everything in the house and you will be there praising her. No, sometimes, you should help her out with some house hold chores. Both of you should help one another. If you found out that she is busy with other things or that she is tired, get up and help her out. Do not say that, it’s not your work. It might not be your work but for the fact that she’s your wife and you two love each other, it’s your duty to help her. Nobody owns household chores but you two can do it with love.
Listen to her ideas
Some men has make it a routine that they always turn deaf to their wife’s idea, instead they will call it woman’s idea. It is very bad. Even if she is talking nonsense, at least give her time to finish her nonsense and do that with interest. Don’t turn down her opinion immediately after she must have finished. Give interest to her own idea even though it’s not valuable; explain to her the reason why you should not take her own idea at that moment. It pains when you rejects a woman’s idea especially your wife and accept it after someone else’s must have told you the same thing.
Do not cheat on her
Control your loving eyes outside; instead devote all your emotional and romantic eyes to your wife. Always tell yourself that, that thing which you deal outside is inside. Let your wife be your number one lover and best friend ever. Love her as much as You can and make her understand by your actions that she is the only person in your life.
Do not be selfish when making love
Let it not be only your pattern that you will be doing. Try to ask her the pattern she will like because sexual activities are best when two is enjoying at the same time. Not when one person is benefiting. Let there be maximum satisfaction in your marriage.
Do not act as if you are better than her
This aspect is very important, sometimes it is necessary to let your wife know that she is important and she is even better. Let her not always feels that she is nothing. Please her when she does something that you can do. Don’t always be the only one that knows it all, or the only better one. Give her some credits.
Take decision together and stick to it
Your wife is your companion, so for that, it is necessary that both of you should be reasoning things together and once a conclusion is made, always make sure to stick to it. Do not digress. Let your go be go and your fine be come. Even if she says no to something that needs to be said yes, do not argue with her, instead take your time and know the reason behind her No . And if at that moment that it’s is not necessary to find it out, then leave it and come again to reason with her again. Always deal for her permission when taking a decision. Not that you can’t take a decision on your own as a man.
NO just that you are giving her the respect as your wife and you want to keep that spark in your relationship. Keep your ego aside and do the right thing.
All these are ways in which a husband should treats his wife . You can drop your comments if you have any.
