As we all know, the saying “men are from Mars and women are from Venus” reflects the challenges of achieving a balanced and harmonious relationship....CONTINUE READING
However, have you ever stopped to consider if there are certain patterns of behaviour that you, as a woman, are contributing to this imbalance? It’s a fact that every relationship goes through its own ups and downs, but some mistakes seem to be made time and time again by women in relationships, whether it’s with a new or old partner….
Fortunately, Dr. Rashi Ahuja, a leading psychologist and hypnotherapist at Park Hospital in Gurgaon, has compiled seven essential rules that every woman shouldn’t ignore if they want to maintain a successful relationship.
So, if you’re ready to take your relationship to the next level and become the best version of yourself, read on and take note of these valuable tips!
1. Do not be too giving
In a relationship, giving is essential in building a strong bond. Nonetheless, it becomes detrimental when it reaches a point where your own needs are neglected. When faced with an abusive relationship, be it physical, emotional, or verbal, you must take action.
While giving a warning about the unacceptable behavior is important, if the problem persists, then it is time to let go. Our personal growth is the cornerstone of any relationship, and anything that thwarts it is not healthy.
It’s essential to recognize the importance of prioritizing oneself in any relationship and to make the necessary decisions that will benefit us in the long run.
2. Do not stop looking after yourself
Regularly hitting the gym not only keeps your mind and body engaged, but also elevates your self-esteem. So, why not channel your emotions at the gym instead of complaining to your partner?
This way, you not only alleviate stress but also burn calories, making it doubly beneficial for you. Start working out today to unleash a better and happier version of yourself!
3. Do not forgive every-single-time
It’s important to address any mishaps in a relationship with an explanation and apology, however, if these mistakes continuously occur and begin to impact the relationship, it’s crucial to recognize them as a warning sign.
If your partner is not willing to make a change after you’ve expressed your concerns, it may be time to reconsider the relationship or seek professional help.
Additionally, it’s not always on women to concede and apologize, especially when they’re not at fault. It’s time to put a stop to accommodating negative behavior and prioritize your own well-being in the relationship.
4. Do not spend all your time with your spouse
It’s not just a saying, it’s true: absence really does make the heart grow fonder. Ladies, it’s essential to make time for yourself amidst your busy “we” schedules.
Maintaining a relationship takes effort, and taking some space to unwind and treat yourself will only make it stronger. Trust me, you’ll thank yourself later. So go ahead, prioritize self-care and reap the benefits of a rejuvenated mind and heart.
5. Do not lose your identity
It’s crucial that you prioritize spending quality time alone, indulging in activities that will boost your confidence and self-esteem. It could be a hobby you’ve always been passionate about or something you’ve put off doing for some time now.
Remember that maintaining your independence and having a distinct identity from your partner is essential for a healthy, fulfilling relationship. So take the reins and carve out some “me” time; you’ll emerge feeling empowered and rejuvenated!
6. Do not be completely transparent with your partner
It’s important to remember that your transparency can also make you more vulnerable. Therefore, it’s critical to establish boundaries to protect yourself. While some women believe that withholding nothing from their partner is necessary for authenticity, it’s not always the best course of action.
Dr. Ahuja recommends that you shouldn’t feel obligated to reveal every detail to your spouse or significant other. Instead, be selective about what you disclose and maintain your personal power.
7. Do not be financially dependent on your partner
It’s a common fact that, even the most compatible couples have disagreements about finances. Therefore, in today’s society, it’s crucial for women to have financial independence despite traditionally relying on their spouse’s support.
Achieving financial stability not only brings a sense of accomplishment but also provides a significant sense of security. Therefore, it’s essential for individuals to take charge of their finances and become self-sufficient..<<CONTINUE READING>>
