It is important that you are well prepared before getting married. You exit a marriage sooner than you think when you enter it without making enough preparations....CONTINUE READING THE FULL ARTICLE>>>
Being in love with someone is not a sufficient reason to tie the knot. Before saying “I do,” there are a few things you should talk about with your partner.
1. MONEY:
Never underestimate how important money is to a marriage. I have witnessed a number of marriages fail because of financial issues. You should discuss each other’s financial situation before getting married.
It is important for you both to know whether you can both provide for a family, how expenses should be handled, and whether any of you are in debt.
2. RELATING TO PARENTHOOD:
It’s important for you to realize that not everyone marries with the goal of having children. It is important to discuss having children with your spouse to find out whether they share your desire. Failure to address this could come back to hunt you in the future.
3. LOCATIONS FOR LIVING:
You should discuss where to reside after marriage with your potential spouse. While some people might desire to live far away from their family, others could prefer to remain near them. This conversation is essential if, prior to marriage, you were both living in different cities.
4. YOUR AIM AND PRINCIPLES:
It is not appropriate to consent to marriage without first discussing each other’s aspirations and morals. You should reassess the connection if your objectives and ideals are at odds with one another.
5. YOUR HISTORY:
You might believe that this is unimportant until your marriage is destroyed by anything from your history. It is imperative that you handle any outstanding difficulties from your past that may come up again in the future…CONTINUE READING>>
