If only we could just snap our fingers and make your ex wake up and realize that your relationship still has so much potential, that the love you have for them is still there, and that letting you go would be a huge loss! Unfortunately, the breakup has taken place and you’re left wondering how to make someone miss you, and how you can make your ex want you back....CONTINUE READING
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So let’s take a look at how to make someone miss you!
The basics of making someone miss you
Right off the bat, I can tell you that it all boils down to your ability to change.
If your boyfriend or girlfriend left you, it means that he or she began to doubt your overall ability to make them happy in the long run. That means that if you want to make him or her miss you, you have to show that you are able to make the changes that would make it possible for you to offer them longterm happiness.
So if your ex left, it means that they lost faith. They felt that you were not going to be able to make the changes that would protect the relationship and make them happy. This is one of the key elements to keep in mind if you want to know how to make him miss you.
There are so many things that an ex may have wanted you to change. Just a few examples are clinginess and neediness, selfishness, laziness, temper, and the list goes on and on.
Another thing to keep in mind is that your ex doesn’t want to hear empty words. You know the expression, “Actions speak louder than words?” Well, it is very true and at this point, your ex feels like they haven’t seen anything that would make them believe that you can change. So begging, pleading, and promising your ex that things will be different is not going to be enough to genuinely make him or her miss you.
There is another thing I want to mention before I dive into the how-to’s of making someone miss you like crazy. It is important that you ask yourself if the changes you are going to make for your ex are going to serve you, too.
For example, what if your ex is someone who doesn’t mind messiness or disorder in the house, but you’re someone that has always been very tidy. Your need for tidiness is actually what drove your ex nuts and made them want to leave the relationship.
If you are genuinely happy with having a clean home, then instead of trying to make an ex miss you and become messier, it might be a better move to go back to the drawing board and reconsider who you’re working so hard on keeping in your life, and who you’re dating.
