The habit of begging for love is very common among most ladies who are very emotional. I understand and can relate to how hurtful it is for you to love a person and that person doesn’t feel the same way too. This is very hurtful especially when your heart has labeled that person, to be the one you want to spend the rest of your life with....CONTINUE READING
It’s very easy to love than to unlove or controls your emotional feelings towards a person, but what you have to understand is that you can’t force love, move on and live like the person never existed and learn from your experience.
Never be the first to love or give your heart to someone who you aren’t sure if they love you. Never beg for love from a person who you are not sure if they worth you and your love.
In this article, I will be sharing with you, a few reasons why you should never beg for love
1. You can’t force love: What will be, therefore you can’t force love. If you are meant to be with the person you love, you guys will surely be together no matter what.
If you feel you love a person and you want to spend the rest of your life with them, but they don’t feel the same way, then you don’t have to force it or beg the person to love you, it makes no sense. Love isn’t by force or a matter of choice, but it’s an emotional feeling that we can’t control.
You love a person doesn’t mean that you guys are meant to be. Have in mind that no matter how hard you try, if you and a person are not meant to be, you guys can’t end up together, that’s a fact. The earlier we begin to understand this, the better for us.
2. They are not worth you; If you truly love a person and they take your love for granted and treat you like a piece of garbage, then walk away.
Don’t stay there because you think that they might one day change their mind and love you the same way you love them, that’s a lie. Don’t tolerate pain all in the name of love, If they take you for granted, walk out from that relationship and don’t look back, they aren’t worth you.
Don’t beg for love when there are lots of people out there who are ready to love and appreciate you for who you are. Know your worth and don’t force yourself trying to please people who aren’t worth you.
3. You will be taken for granted;
The moment you beg for love, you have downgraded yourself and make yourself feel unimportant because the moment a person finds out that you love them a lot and can’t do without them, even when they don’t feel the same, they see it as your weakness and take you for granted thinking that you can’t do without them.
This is another major reason why you can’t and should never beg a person to stay in your life, if they want to walk away let them be and never you beg for them to love you.
