Actions speak much louder than words. If someone’s actions don’t reflect what they’ve been saying, then that’s a discrepancy that needs to be paid attention to. If your man has been doing any of the 12 things listed below, then he’s lying when he says he loves you.....CLICK HERE TO READ THE FULL ARTICLE>>>
1. He’s often cruel, but dismisses things as being “just a joke”.
Having a shared sense of humor is vital, but if he’s constantly being malicious to get a reaction out of you and amuse himself, and then gaslighting you to make it seem that you’re overreacting to the “silly little jokes” he’s been making, then it’s clear that he doesn’t love you.
2. He prioritizes his own needs and puts yours a distant second.
Everything that’s important to him is a priority, but your needs are simply annoying and insignificant and aren’t worthy of his time or effort. If you try to express to him that your needs aren’t being met, he’ll imply that you’re overly needy and selfish, and bring the attention back to himself.
3. He interrupts you constantly and doesn’t listen to you.
He doesn’t listen to what you have to say, and he’ll cut you off mid-sentence or talk right over you—whether you’re alone or in company. Essentially, he doesn’t respect you enough to permit you to speak unless he asks you a direct question, and, even then, the answer had better be brief.
4. He belittles you in front of other people.
He finds it amusing to put you down with little cutting remarks and insults when you’re out with other people. Maybe he mocks your ideas when you offer them, undermines your advice, or he might even insult your appearance to try to get a laugh out of those around you.
5. He attempts to turn you into a servant at every opportunity.
He doesn’t do an equal share of chores and responsibilities but perpetually adds to your burden. It’s far too much of an effort for him to go get his own drink from the kitchen, let alone wash dishes that he’s used, or put away food after he’s eaten his share. That’s your job.
6. He dismisses your concerns, even when they’re valid.
Anything you think or feel is dismissed as an overreaction, even if those thoughts or feelings are perfectly valid. You may know without a doubt that your child or parent is severely ill, and he’ll just tell you that you’re fussing too much or imply that you’re mentally unstable for thinking that way.
7. He makes it clear that your interests mean nothing to him.
He tells you often that he doesn’t care about anything you’re passionate about and will change the subject or walk away if you have the audacity to mention anything that brings you joy. Unless you’re talking about something he finds important, he’s not interested and doesn’t want to hear about it.
8. He tries to make you into something you’re not.
Instead of appreciating you for who you are, he keeps trying to adjust you to better suit his preferences. You should try this thing he’s into, change your hair to a style or color he prefers, stop wearing that outfit he hates despite the fact that you love it, and so on.
9. He makes sure you know that you’re last on the totem pole in his world.
He has made it abundantly clear to you that his friends, family, and dog are all a higher priority in his life than you’ll ever be. Furthermore, he may imply that you’re lucky to be with him, since nobody else would ever want you, so you should show more gratitude.
10. All that’s yours is his, but not vice versa.
Your income is “a shared wallet” for both personal and household expenses, but his earnings are his and his alone, you gold digger. Similarly, your belongings are up for grabs whenever they may be needed (tools, toiletries, food), but he’ll become enraged if you touch or use anything of his.
11. He doesn’t keep his word.
He’ll agree to something in the moment in order to resolve an exchange that he finds tedious, but will then use his temper, excuses, or other priorities to justify why he can’t keep his word to you. He may have been promising you something for years, but you know it’ll never happen.
12. He hits you.
This is last on the list not because it’s the lowest priority, but because it needs to be remembered. If he’s ever physically violent towards you, that isn’t love—no matter how often he apologizes. There are many organizations that can help you, so please seek help as soon as possible…CONTINUE READING>>
