I’ve been dating my boyfriend for four years now. He was my first, and I love him deeply. He treated me with so much love and respect until 2023, when he faced some financial problems. I even sold my iPhone 11 to support him. We were both students at the time, and I often asked my family for money to help him.....CLICK HERE TO READ THE FULL ARTICLE>>>
However, I noticed that he changed. He became aggressive, quiet, and sad. During arguments, he would remind me that he was the man in the relationship and accuse me of acting masculine. We started drifting apart, and I became exhausted by all the problems. During the holiday break, I noticed a guy from the area who was always asking me out. Given the issues with my boyfriend, I got carried away. I made sure my boyfriend saw me leave with this guy.
I ended up having sex with this guy. When I returned home, I called him and told him I never wanted to see him again and that it was a one-time thing. I then called my boyfriend and explained everything. He was upset and changed towards me. Realizing I deserved it, I decided to break up with him.
Even though we broke up, we remained very good friends. In fact, I confide in him, and he confides in me. Things got better for him, and he often gives me money without me asking because we’re just friends. Last month, I stayed at his place for a week while I had business on his campus. That’s when I met the girlfriend he had been telling me about.
Apparently, since we became friends, he got a new girlfriend who also stays in his hostel building. Despite staying at his house for an entire week, the girl never came inside. They only met at the window of his apartment.
I often feel jealous and cry when I hear them giggling during our conversations. One evening, I got so drunk that I confessed to him that I missed him and wanted him back. I apologized for everything I did, and he said he forgave me but couldn’t break up with his girlfriend for no reason. I agreed to give them time.
This month, I stayed at his place again for a week, and his girlfriend still didn’t come inside. Whenever I’m there, the girl acts like she’s scared of me. Since I left his house two days ago, my ex has been acting distant. I’m scared he might not have truly forgiven me.
He has forgiven you, but that doesn’t mean things will return to how they were. Forgiveness doesn’t guarantee you the same access you had before. He’s moved on and has a girlfriend. He’s not waiting for you to come back after what you did….CLICK HERE FOR MORE ARTICLE>>>
