I’ve been married to my husband for four years, and I just found out that my husband is having an affair with my mother. It’s very heartbreaking. It’s been six months since I found out, and I’ve never told anybody this before now.....CLICK HERE TO READ THE FULL ARTICLE>>>
It gets worse. I knew my husband was cheating on me, but I never thought it was with my own mother—the woman who carried me in her stomach for nine months. I’ve always suspected my husband of cheating, so one day we were in the bedroom getting ready for bed, and I watched him unlock his phone and memorized his password.
The next morning, while he was getting ready for work, he left his phone on the table in our room. I took the opportunity to go through his phone. The first place I went was his WhatsApp, where I saw that he had archived three messages. I opened the archived messages, and what I saw shook me. There were conversations between my husband and my mother. I went to the media section and couldn’t believe my eyes. My mother was sending my husband pictures, and he was sending his own to her.
There was a time my husband told me he had a business trip to Ghana. Through their messages, I found out he actually traveled with my mother. The same time my husband traveled to Ghana, my mother told me she was going on a business trip to buy millinery materials in Lagos, but I found out she never went to Lagos. She went to Ghana with my husband. My husband took my mother on a vacation, but I’ve been begging him to take me on a vacation for the past two years.
My mother used to come to our house and stay for one or two weeks. I realized she never came to see me; she came because of my husband. I can’t believe my own mother would do such a thing to me. I am writing this with tears in my eyes because if I can’t trust my own mother, who can I trust in this world?
My husband doesn’t know that I know about his affair with my mother. My mother doesn’t know that I know either. Nobody knows, except now that I’m telling you. I am hurt. I feel betrayed, like I’ve been stabbed in the back by my own mother. I know that men will always be men, but my own mother? How will I explain this to my two kids?
I was a lawyer before I got married, but I stopped practicing law because I wanted to focus on my family. Now, I am really going to deal with my husband because he knows not to mess with me, especially as a woman who is a lawyer. I’ve gathered enough evidence because when we got married, we signed an infidelity clause. However, I’m having second thoughts. I don’t know if I should go ahead with my plan or just leave him and move on with my life.
I am an only child, and my father is late. My mother is the only family I have. I know I have my kids, but she’s my mother, and I still love her even after finding out what she did to me. I don’t know if I’m scared to cut her off or if it’s the love I have for her because she loved me and took care of me all by herself when my father died. She never wanted to remarry because she didn’t know how a new husband would treat me. She has always been my friend. Please, I am confused. What should I do…CONTINUE READING>>
