According to relationship experts being shy isn’t unusual but it can make it difficult to approach the girl you have a crush on. Instead of allowing your fear of rejection to prevent you from approaching your crush, you can work to overcome your insecurities and make yourself a confident conversationalist....CONTINUE READING
Approach your concerns about not knowing what to say to your crush like you might approach any problem and you can find your fears are easy to overcome.
1. Practice by talking to people in stores. An important step in overcoming your shyness is practicing with other people to increase your comfort with conversations.
There are many scenarios in which you can interact with strangers in a pleasant and pressure-free environment to develop your social confidence.
2. Move on to small interactions. Once you have strengthened your social skills through brief conversations with strangers, you can move on to having interactions with other people that aren’t necessarily the girl you like.
By starting with other people, the pressure won’t be as great and you don’t need to worry about the possibility of rejection.
3. Smile and make eye contact. Regardless of who you are talking to, smiling can make you seem friendlier and more personable. Making occasional eye contact can demonstrate your confidence, but avoid making prolonged eye contact as that can be unnerving to some people.
