We all have moments in our relationships where we act selfishly. However, there is a problem when self-centered, immature, or disrespectful behavior becomes the norm for you. Below are some important signs that you are been selfish in your relationship:...CONTINUE READING

1. You lack patience.

If your partner does not answer immediately to your text or voice mail, you become irritated. If they do not take your counsel, you may snap at them.

All of these things point to a lack of patience on your part. And being impatient with your partner means that you are selfish in a relationship.

2. You are a control freak.

Controlling relationships are harmful and damaging because you feel the need to control not only what you do as a pair, but also your partner’s life.

3. You want it your way.

Even if your partner wants to do something different, you prefer to do things your way or go where you want. If you are persuaded by your companion to do something or go somewhere else. When your lover accepts your offer, that’s it. You’ll feel instantly uplifted and welcomed by your spouse.

Your lover may feel fantastic at the time you show them your affection, but they are thinking about how stubborn you are on the inside!

4. You can’t easily trust your partner

You adore your partner. However, you are constantly wary of placing entire trust in others since you honestly believe that you are the only one who can bring happiness to yourself.

Even if you’re dating a fantastic guy or gal. You prioritize your own needs before considering your partner’s. Because you believe your mate would do the same thing!

5. You think you are always right.

Nobody enjoys a self-righteous snob. Even your partner, who says he or she loves you unconditionally, wishes you would quit. You don’t know everything, regardless of how well read, educated, or traveled you are. And presuming you do is a certain way to destroy your relationship.

6. You focus on ‘winning’ the argument.

Look, I understand. It’s incredibly fulfilling for me to win arguments. However, someone wise once remarked that in relationships, you must occasionally choose between being right and being together. And if you always choose to be right, odds are you won’t stay together for long.

7. You give your partner the silent treatment instead of tackling difficult conversations in a mature way.

When you’re hurt or angry at your partner, it’s self-centered not to try to communicate. In a romantic relationship, difficult conversations are inevitable. When you refuse to discuss, you cause a lot of pain for your partner.

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