The excitement of a new relationship can make you feel overwhelmed with passionate love. You’ve been single and searching for a while until your new partner comes into your life, and your love life is now on a roller coaster. However, if you are not careful in a new relationship, things can go awry....CONTINUE READING
You have to insist on doing this with your new partner and ensure you build a solid foundation first before focusing on the regular things that are expected in a romantic relationship. There are things you must learn not to do in the early phases of a relationship. This will prepare you for the years ahead.
The way you start a new relationship will determine if you won’t make the same mistakes that you made with your ex. Building a healthy relationship from the beginning will allow it to flourish. You will be able to handle each other’s attitudes better.
1. Avoid talking about your ex or past relationships, especially if things didn’t end well between you and them. Your plan should be about visualizing the way you want your new relationship to work and not lamenting about your past.
2. Never enter into a new relationship with the assumption that all men and women are the same. The person who hurt you in your past relationship is not the same person you are dealing with now.
Try to focus on the qualities you admire in your new partner. This will help you find fulfillment and happiness with your partner.
3. Never engage in physical intimacy with a new partner before forming a strong emotional bond with them. Building emotional intimacy may not happen in a matter of days. You have to create the opportunity to communicate, sympathize, support, and understand each other.
When couples become emotionally intimate before having physical intimacy, they will treat each other like friends. Passionate desires will not make them irrational when there are disagreements. Remember, lust burns but love heals.
4. Don’t make the mistake of not defining the relationship from the beginning. Don’t allow the fun and excitement at the beginning to distract you from defining what you expect from the relationship.
Do you want a casual or long-term relationship? You will need to define it and set realistic goals to achieve it.
5. Make sure you don’t keep trying the same approach or attitudes that didn’t work out in your past relationships. Try something new. Rebrand yourself and make yourself irresistible. You might also need to set your boundaries so that you won’t be taken for granted.
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